Deprecated: mysql_connect(): The mysql extension is deprecated and will be removed in the future: use mysqli or PDO instead in /home/a26f9f83/public_html/articles/includes/config.php on line 159
How To Tell If Someone You Meet In An Online Profile Or Advert Is Married/Partnered Or A Troll - 3 > NetSparsh - Viral Content you Love & Share

How To Tell If Someone You Meet In An Online Profile Or Advert Is Married/Partnered Or A Troll - 3

Liar, Liar! Pants On Fire!

Today, you'll learn about 2 yellow-flag indications the person on the other end of your online chat is possibly a troll (married, partnered or undesirable)...

1. Statute Of Contact Limitations

Beware, beware of anyone putting conditions on when and where you can contact them.

For example - "Sorry, but I don't have a land-line, only a cell-phone."

Or "Don't call me on weekends or after 8:30pm"

Or "Always let me know by email first that you are going to phone me."

Or "Never leave a message on my answering machine."

You need to ask yourself:

"Who has a cell phone but no land-line?"

"What makes a person unavailable to speak on the phone on weekends and evenings?"

"Why would someone require forewarning before being contacted by phone?"

"What's the problem with leaving messages on the answering machine of someone you're dating online?"

Suspicious wouldn't you agree?

In the real-world some excuses may be plausible but unfortunately lying is much more prevelent online, so you must be more skeptical in your judgment of what you read from other people.

The exception where the above may be acceptable is if the dater is still in a dead relationship that hasn't officially ended because of ownership of joint assets or even marriage.

Personally, even in these cases I would still steer clear. Sometimes relationships can take a long time to end and then you may just be catching them on the rebound with a whole lot of emotional baggage to boot, anyway.

If any of these contact limitations are imposed on you I suggest you try the following:

- confront them about it, be gentle but persistent. If they consistently say they can't tell you why or won't revoke the contact limitations then I would say "Bye, bye."

- call them when they aren't expecting it. Who answered, are they angry, are they whispering, are they being secretive, whose voice was it on the answering machine?

- try to find their number in a phone book.

- ask some of the other people you have chatted with at your dating site if they know anything. Keep it polite and 'oh, by the way' so the message doesn't get back you have been checking up on their facts.

2. No Sepia-Toned Photos Please

The biggest reason for telling lies in online dating is, easily, to deceive someone about your physical appearance.

Its common for people to use old photos from a more atractive time in their life.

Old photos are pretty easy to spot. Look for:

- color and image qualities of the photo,
- hair styles,
- facial hair styles,
- clothing styles,
- background images like old advertising or logos
- apparent age in photo compared to written age in profile.

Of course if there is no photo you can't tell. I would say never bother contacting anyone who doesn't have a photo.

Surveys have shown that 80% of people agree with me.

And, unless the dater has only been online dating for a week or so, don't tolerate any excuses like:

- no camera,
- no scanner,
- haven't got around to it yet.

Please! If this person is serious about finding a relationship, they can easily get off their pants and spend 10 bucks on getting a photo scanned or having one taken.

I could go on but once again we've run out of room. In the next article in this series you will learn about what I call the 'Perpetually Unavailable Syndrome' and what to do when it occurs.

Your Truly,
Adam Coole
http://www.gayandlesbianonlinedatingsecrets.com/gay-
lesbian-articles/gay-dating-coursearti cle3.htm

To read the rest of this exciting series visit Gay and Lesbian Online Dating SECRETSTM and subscribe now.

Online Gay Dating

"How to easily find your Perfect-Partner online."

In The News:

This RSS feed URL is deprecated, please update. New URLs can be found in the footers at https://news.google.com/news

The Good Men Project (blog)

Men, Develop Lasting Relationships by Shelving Male Expectation Myths
The Good Men Project (blog)
A seventy-five year Harvard study of 724 men, half from Harvard's sophomore class and half from the poorest neighborhoods in Boston, found out that a good healthy long-lived life depended on good satisfying high-quality relationships including partners ...


Questionable relationships
South Bend Tribune
A friend whom I have known for 40-plus years got married for the second time in his life five years ago. At the wedding, some of the bride's relatives told the minister, ''These two should not be married.'' Two years ago, he filed for divorce. In the ...


Creators Syndicate

Questionable Relationships, by Annie Lane | Creators Syndicate
Creators Syndicate
Dear Annie: A friend whom I have known for 40-plus years got married for the second time in his life five years ago. At the wedding, some of the bride's relatives told the minister, "These two should not be married." Two years ago, he filed for divorce ...

and more »

The Guardian

Why do we hold on to first impressions in a relationship?
The Guardian
The book contains a chapter on cognitive dissonance in marriage, which holds this process to be the main culprit in the outcome of relationships. “Misunderstandings, conflicts, personality differences and even angry quarrels are not the assassins of ...


The Independent

The five phases of a relationship | The Independent
The Independent
A survey has revealed the five stages most relationships go through - and what each one entails. Dating site eHarmony conducted a survey on over 1000 Australians to find out when various milestones occur. “There are a lot of commonalities among ...

and more »

The Courier Life News

Extra Effort: Onalaska senior learns to build relationships, trust in self
The Courier Life News
Her freshman year, the family moved to Winona and lived with her mom's boyfriend, but moved out after that relationship ended. “I always told myself it wouldn't be like this forever,” she said. “I kept telling myself things were going to change ...


GMA News

The Museum of Broken Relationship exists to help people move on
GMA News
With the New Year fast approaching, it's time to move on from that devastating breakup and leave the past along with 2017 behind – or at the Museum of Broken Relationships in Croatia, if you get the chance. The brainchild of an artist couple who has ...


The Good Men Project (blog)

Why Society Should Talk About Forced Sex in Intimate Relationships, Too
The Good Men Project (blog)
In the wake of the deluge of news about sexual harassment and alleged assaults by several high-profile and powerful men, it is important to look at the causes and consequences of forced sex in the workplace – but also in intimate relationships ...


Daily Herald

Lehi SEO business leaps ahead through building solid relationships
Daily Herald
“We work with more than 150 companies, and a lot of them are Utah tech companies,” said Bryan Phelps, Big Leap CEO, on Wednesday. “We love the face-to-face interaction with Utah businesses. And we've worked for many of them for years.” Dan Posner, Big ...


Psychology Today (blog)

The Heartbreak of Relationships with Narcissists
Psychology Today (blog)
Narcissus and Echo were tragic Greek characters in a story told by the Roman poet, Ovid, in "Metamorphoses." This poignant myth crystallizes the tragic problem of relationships with narcissists. Sadly, both partners are locked into a painful drama ...

Google News

Christmas Gifts Can Be a Cheating Husbands Undoing

Have you been plagued by the nagging feeling that your... Read More

Assuming Personal Responsibility in Relationships

Stephen Covey in 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families says... Read More

Relationship Advice: Powerful Tips for Staying Close and Connected

Staying close in your relationship does not just happen.Staying close... Read More

10 Fast Ways to Re-ignite the Flames of Love

Enhance Romance today.When Men and Women enter into a relationship,... Read More

How to Get a Woman to Treat You the Way You Deserve

You know the scenario. You start dating a woman. After... Read More

10 Things You Probably Didnt Know About Signs of Infidelity

Certain things about signs of infidelity come as a surprise... Read More

What Planet Is Your Relationship On?

If men are from Mars and women are from Venus,... Read More

Married and ECheating ? A Dreadful Alliance!

In Homer's Odyssey (a Greek Myth) sailors were lured to... Read More

Attention Guys: Impress Your Girls - Send Flowers!

Remember that big hug she gave you when you got... Read More

Improve Your Relationship by Taking Care of Yourself First

It's important for you to take care of yourself before... Read More

The Five Minute Relationship Miracle

"They may forget what you said, but they will never... Read More

If He Insists That You Work...

Once, when asked about her life, former First Lady Barbara... Read More

A Recipe For Romance

So, tonight's the night. You want to have a Romantic... Read More

Too Many Cooks in the Kitchen After Wife Gets MBA

"Hesh, where is your business plan?" It was a question... Read More

Ladies, Is Your Valentine The Cheating Kind?

According to statistics, 50% to 70% of men cheat on... Read More

3 Stone Diamond Rings ? Three Times As Nice!

It is said that the stones in 3 stone diamond... Read More

What You Should Know About Domestic Abuse

What is domestic abuse?There are many forms of domestic abuse,... Read More

Relationship Advice: 2 Beliefs for a Successful Relationship

Mark Twain once saidGod's great cosmic joke on the human... Read More

How to Use Your Brain to Seduce Women

CHESS-MATEIf you're one of those guys telling to yourself that... Read More

Relationship Advice: Why Brad and Jen Broke Up and What We Can Learn from Them

It's been a few months since the riveting headlines: The... Read More

Great Relationships: How to Create a Nag-Free Zone

Q: My wife and I have a good marriage that... Read More

Tips for Building Love Relationships - 1

Nearly everyone claims to want a great relationship with their... Read More

Holy Mantrimony

In the last couple of weeks, the catholic war machine... Read More

Valentine?s Day is Fast Approaching, So Gather the Chocolates and Lingerie

That lover's holiday we know as Valentine's Day is coming... Read More

How To Write a Romantic Love Letter

Does the thought of writing a love letter or poem... Read More