Are You Looking for Ms. Right or Mr. Not so Wrong?

Do you want to find the "love of your life?"

It's not easy to find Mr. or Miss "Right". And how do you know if you're right when you think you have?

The chilling fact is 75% of marriages end up unhappy, separated or divorced. The stakes are high, yet the tools to help you make the right decision have been almost non-existent... until now!

Scientific research has shown that picking the right person is the best way to achieve a great relationship.

But how do you make a great choice in a club, church event, or party, where appearance and small talk is really all you have to go on?

Using the internet, one dating service, eHarmony, is able to learn about its members from the inside out and match them based on deep, meaningful characteristics.

Recent research presented at the American Psychological Society found that eHarmony married couples are significantly happier than couples married for a similar length of time who met by other means.

So how do they do that?

eHarmony's detailed questionnaire measures the intricate facets of a person, including the 29 dimensions that are most important in relationship success.

They then match singles who have the best chance of making great relationship partners. And to improve the chances of success even more, we guide matches as they get to know each other with a unique guided communication process.

With the help of eHarmony's compatibility matching and communication guidance, our members can quickly find a "soul-mate," instead of just struggling through endless dates that lead nowhere.

Thousands of Success Stories

To date, eHarmony has enjoyed - and helped its members to enjoy - outstanding success. We've met tens of thousands of members, and created matches that have resulted in hundreds of marriages, and thousands of relationships that are going strong.

eHarmony was founded in 1998 by relationship expert Dr. Neil Clark Warren to help people build successful, long-lasting relationships. After 35 years of private counseling, research and public speaking, Dr. Warren created eHarmony, combining clinical expertise with the latest technology. Our mission: to help millions of people find the right partner for life-long love and happiness.

Simone Reed is the editor of "Love Letters" a FREE newsletter giving you the latest tips and dating advice. Visit her at http://www.online-dating-4all.com

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